Note to Friend

It sounds like you can well handle things if people get out of line. And, statistically speaking, a 20-year-old might attract more boundary-crossing sex-related remarks than a 63-year-old, but I personally like to think that sexual attraction is about chemistry and that it's a mysterious thing that can happen between any two people. I like to think there are people of every age out there having wonderful sexual relationships if that's what makes them happy. So I can't really say, "Yeah, don't worry about that--you're too old," but I can definitely say, "I know that you can choose what you want in your life and also banish what you don't want with ease and finesse."